Shelly Thing #71

Ending this Year with a Bang!  I am thankful that I didn't continue with last years bad habits... ie. Bad People.. you know who you are! Well anyway, on to 2012 and getting stronger every step of the way ;) My Birthday is in 4 days, who is gonna party it  up with me?? It's my last year in my 20's... ugh!

 

So here is to the New Year and the New Opportunities!

Cheers!

Shelly Thing #70

Mood: Bothered

Costume: Got my damn Cape on!

OK so here we go... I welcome you to my damn rant of the day...



Parts of me want to save my fingers and not type this but I am also saving my breath in the same... because it would be pointless, but I need to get it out somewhere.  Regardless if you read this or not.

I didn't realize that I was born yesterday... when were you going to tell me??  Well no, I really wasn't.  It was a cold day in January in 1983, right after we all said Happy New Year, Sheila welcomed me into the world after a long 3 day battle.... nobody said I make things easy either, cause obviously I didn't from the jump.  I was born a female, yes... still doesn't make me an idiot, as some males may argue.  It doesn't make me irrational either, even though I don't claim to never be that way.  My best friends will tell me if I am being just that and I will sit down and listen... I also am not saying that my best friends won't tell me I am being stupid for letting this bother me as well.  We are all human and we all make decisions on our own.  Now down to the nitty gritty.  My FRIENDS... are genuine.  Don't call/text me just when it's a convenience for YOU, yes it's obvious.  Like I said, I was NOT born yesterday.  You took the time out of your busy schedule to address me and then poof, no response... what do I think this means??
 

YOU WASTED MY TIME.  

If you are not going to continue on with the reason you are addressing me in the first place, then why bother?? Why take the time to reach out if you know it's just filling the down time you have.  I work a lot, most of you know... so when I stop what I am doing to respond to you, make it worth it!  I may sound like a bitch, but I already warned you, my cape is on! No I am not unhappy and this is not why I am ranting.  NO I am not a Naggy Bitch, I am just being honest...  I will do anything for my Family and Friends, I will be a true friend till the end.  One hand washes the other, so on and so on... so this is what burns my toast on a daily basis.  I don't reach out because you don't respond (it's not like you care anyway)... again, I don't like to waste my time!  I will stand mighty proud on my soapbox this morning and scream it in your ear... I am not going to beg you to understand the person that I am and the friend I am trying to be... if You don't get it then I guess, It is what it is.  Please don't waste my time anymore.  I am happy and content at living the life that I want.  I love the people that want to be in my life and they love me back.  I guess this all stemmed from a quote I read this morning....  

The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in theirs." -unknown

I am not an on the fly friend.  My attention and time is worth more then you think. I have goals... I know what I want in life and a friendship like that is not on that list.  After all I am just being honest... 

My Sarcasm is the response to your lack of genuine friendship. 

Shelly Thing #69

OK, so I am going to take a minute to apologize for my absence... I have been one Busy Shelly!  New things have fallen into my lap and I have been so grateful for them.  I started a second job, with some cool nifty photogs at a Portrait Photography Studio and I am having a blast!  It consumes more of my free time but who doesn't love fulfilling their Passion while making some dough in the mix?  If said you didn't Love it... I might ask what was wrong with you lol cause it's pretty cool! I started a personal journey and have been quite successful at it.. I am going to toot my own horn and pat myself on the back because I know that anything that I put my mind to because I want it that bad, I AM going to the Achieve it!! I haven't failed myself yet and I am never going to ;) I am on a roll!  Things are looking up in Shelly's World!  I AM SHELLY, HEAR ME ROAR! LOL continuing on... can you tell I have been in an excellent mood? lol  So for now I will keep you all posted, via Social Network... where ever you can catch me :) Happy Friday, Happy Veterans Day! Thank You to all the vets who have given us Freedom!

Shelly Thing #68

So, it's been too long since I have blogged! I need to get back into the swing of things.  I kinda let the rest of my summer take a hold of me and the thought of blogging just slipped my mind... oh well!   Well anyways, guess what tomorrow is!?  Done Guessing??  Well, it's CUPCAKE TUESDAY!!!!   Beginning tomorrow, Tuesday October 18th, 2011 and continuing every damn Tuesday... Miss Kellee and I will be working hard in my Kitchen... Experimenting, Testing, Tasting, Baking... etc. etc..  I have that long list of Flavors that my FB friends so generously offered up and we are going to go through that list, one flavor at a time!   If you were so lucky to include yourself in that first entry, then you will be happy to know... I will personally Hand Deliver 2 cupcakes of ones said flavor choice! (providing the distance is within reason)  so keep your eyes peeled for when your delivery is up and keep checking back for our Cupcake Progress! I promise to post pics :)

Ps, I told you guys to wait for it... I didn't ask you for NO REASON! lol  Get ready!!

Shelly Thing #67

Shame on me...


Shame on me to believe, I could fix you for eternity...

and for all the pain and heartache you brought me through... I was just about to give up my dreams for you.  I lived a double life that no one knew, if I only could see the damage you would do.  Glad I am passed what I thought was new but I can't help but raise awareness from YOU!

Shelly Thing #66

Eerie Number for the topic of the post... I think so, You may not... it's 66, and it makes me think of 666...

Well I am just going to graze the topic cause it's just a thought that came across my mind... Generally it's what happens when I post things... maybe I should spit more of them out in a day.  Then again, you may think I'm a complete weirdo lol 

Well today's topic is.     Unhappiness. (see why I thought 66 was eerie... the devil is always unhappy lol)

Stemming back to my post on Expression... again lol   Did you know that when you are unhappy, you express it in some type of way?  I am just going to hone in on the Facial expression and the Action. 

  Facial Expression:  I go into a grocery store, the girl at the checkout counter always looks completely MISERABLE!  That doesn't make for a good visit with the checkout girl... No... I always try to make small talk with them, make em smile or chuckle.  Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.  What that person doesn't realize is, when they have that look of misery on their face, people take notice and it kind of turns the person off.  Now, if you are miserable too.. it may just be a match made in heaven lol (misery loves company) ok ok enough of that.. lol anyway.  No Matter how much I hated my job, I still put a smile on.  But that is just me.  Some people don't realize if you just suck it up, be the best you can be, and smile while doing it,  you wouldn't be so miserable!  Maybe there are other things going on in the background that we don't know about and it could be the reason for the sour puss but you can always make a change.  Now, I'm not standing on a soap box and telling you that I am never unhappy, cause that would be a Bold Face Lie!  I realize that when I am unhappy I have to make a change... sometimes it's not easy- well.. Life isn't easy! Some people will say, "There is NO changing it" well yes, there is.  Which brings me to actions... You act a certain way with your mood.  If you are constantly doing something which results in something else (which causes stress or unhappiness for you and "others") then that means you were Unhappy from the jump!  You may think of a million other reasons to justify the action, but in reality people eventually WILL catch up on it and see how Unhappy you really are.  Sometimes you feel these actions are making you happy... no no no... You are just fueling your unhappiness. (oh man did this one become a blind item as well? Shucks)   There are things that if you actually sat down and thought about it, are a result of your actions.  I'm not going list them, you already know them... Well, hopefully you will figure it out one day.  Why add the stress to your life?  I ask myself that question all the time.... I am learning to slowly not deal with the things that are going to make me unhappy or act in a way that is basically a cry for help.  Till then, a smile is contagious and maybe you should shed some of that happiness to that girl that the checkout counter, maybe it will help her change a couple things in her favor.  Stop and think about all issues you have in your life and see if they are a result of your unhappiness! You may just save yourself and others a lot of heartache!

Shelly Thing #65

So I said that my intention was not to be a writer but sometimes there are just thoughts that you need to get out  of your head.


Everybody has jumped on some sort of social network and spilled their lives guts to the FB world.   I will be the first person to raise my hand and say that I admit to spending entirely too much time on the internet.  I am fascinated by it.  Always have been and always will be. I am a Internet & Computer JUNKIE!   I remember going to a friends house when I was younger just because they were the only one to have AOL. lol  Back then chatting away on AOL with a random stranger was more common.  I always remembered the first line when your IM box popped up... A/S/L?  and then the question followed, do you have a pic?  Back then it seemed impossible unless you had some computer genius at the house, to actually scan your own 35mm picture in.  lol **Technology is Awesome**  It has evolved so much when it comes to people sharing their everyday lives... which brings me down to the meat of this post.  What you share.  You can share your location, pics, videos, articles, blah blah blah, etc, etc, etc... the list goes on!  Most people know what to share and what not to share. I can say that I take full responsibility in all the things I do share, regardless of them being appropriate in your eyes or mine.  I won't deny any pics or words that I post at all.  Which leads me to other discussions we can have about things people leave out there for other people to see.  Be smart, if you don't want anybody to see them, don't post it.  I will tell you this **it may shock you** or you may be the same exact person that I am.  If you are contacting me Via internet, you bet I AM going to Google you!  :)  Plain and simple, I'd like to know who I am dealing with since I didn't meet you in person from the jump.  People seem to be a bit naive when it comes to the internet and being private.  If you are not already aware of what you post on the internet or others close to you do about yourself then you should start to be more aware.  You may be shocked in knowing that there is more out there then you know! This is why some people know more about you then you actually think they do... :) I know a bit more about some people that I'd like to know lol but sometimes when you or your loved ones put these things out there, I can't help but to read on and be entertained... Like I said, I am an internet Junkie...  You post it, I read it! I'll giggle and share it! (if it's worth it) You may think that I am just nosey, I don't care.  It's public information.  Obviously.  I didn't pay a fee to read it or hack something to read it, It was put out there.  In the Open space we are all so addicted to.  So think about some of the things you tell people before you do.  They probably already saw it in a picture that was posted and it's far from the story that you just told.  (did this just become a blind item?) Hmm So I think I may stop ranting for a bit about what I know and what I don't know, but just know that people take notice.  This blog post may have not been all with it and on the same page, but that's just me.  I'm not all "with it" lol I like to rant sometimes... shoot me. lol On that note, Happy Friday! Have a Wonderful Weekend and become Aware! ;)

Shelly Thing #64

It's kinda cool when you get to see somebody you know, especially a friend on TV.  Last night I got the pleasure of tasting yummy food, listening to her sweet voice and viewing my friend Lucia Palmieri on Rocco's Dinner Party, on the Bravo channel... Ps.. Rocco Dispirito is a delightful yummy dish on his own *wipes off sweat and shakes head* lol  

     Miss Lucia is an amazing singer, chef and friend and I am so very proud of her!!! She gave us the opportunity to taste everything she made for the show, and I am SHOCKED that she didn't win! It was Amazing!  Sandra Bernhard definitely made my shit list as well.  I mean, is there anything else you could possible complain about?  Anywho... again, I am very proud of her and Kudos to you Lucia for making it as far as you did ;)  I would have been so damn nervous... lol  I look forward to watching any wonderful opportunities you gain from your experience and I also look forward to more yummy food ;)  Here are a couple shots from the show and if you didn't see it, I am pretty sure they will rerun it! Watch it, she really put on a wonderful show! 

Again, LUCIA, WE ARE ALL VERY PROUD OF YOU!!!

P.S... Google Her... she's amazing ;)

Shelly Thing #63

Growing up I remember all the times I wondered, "How did they do that?" then it would be followed by me trying to touch it...

     Gotta get all into it, ya know?  They say that kids touch everything, but I REALLY touched EVERYTHING!  I would circle around, find the most random thing in the place and then plot my way into laying one finger on it.  I may not have picked it up but you bet your ass I placed a finger tip on it... you needed to know how it felt if you were eventually going to try to make it functional, right?? yes... (this is me validating my nosiness) So when I am placed in any situation now a days I get the general feeling that I am going to do it on my own.  I need to usually see things once (maybe twice) and then I can do it from there on out.  So when I do something I always wondered "how the hell??" it's a pretty sweet feeling.  I am very appreciative of all my talents and my independence on making things "happen" but sometimes people say I do to much and then there are others that love everything I do.  This stems back to the saying, "You want it done right? Then DO IT YOURSELF!  I take that route most of the time, except a couple things here and there... I am not below changing my own oil, patching a hole in the wall or even doing the "mans" job. (I bet you I can do better)  ... not tooting, just stating ;)  but I enjoy learning new things and I most definitely enjoy the Satisfaction is brings.  So, most of my friends know the places I excel the most in, well Cooking is one of them.  I have recently discovered a new LOVE for Homemade pasta.... I got over my first experience, which was a definite fun one, but it was straight forward.  Cut Spaghetti... Still really cool though. lol I did a Spaghetti Dance when that first came out... (I dance at everything I accomplish, it's a Shelly Thing)  Yesterday I went home early from work and since I cannot sit still for the life of me, I decided to make Tortellini! Not something the average bear would make for dinner. It's way easier to just make your own sauce and boil some frozen ones but whats the fun in that?? I claim every time I make something new that it's the "Coolest thing I have EVER Made" but this was one of those moments... Now I KNOW HOW THE HELL THEY DID THAT!" It's a butt load of steps but I of course put my dinner guests to work and they enjoyed every last minute (I hope) but they were rewarded with a delightful (fat) meal :)  as I slowly sheeted out and cut circles to fill, I made small talk with my guests and asked "Who doesn't like pasta filled with cheese?"... Who doesn't?  it's a perfect comfort food and it's actually really cool to see come together.  I am happy with everything that I do in Life, and I have to say that this task, really Impressed me... It's like creating something that you thought only a machine could do, but knew in the back of your head, there is some Italian grandmother could do better but yet she's the originator.  Well, I am a grandmother at heart and I won't stop till I can please my guests.  I told you, I am passionate in everything that I do.  Even if it's just my "bounce".  I wonder what the next creation will be, cause nothing will stop me... Any Suggestions?  

Home Made Sauce too ;)

I made that... isn't it cool?? lol

All the Kiddies in the Pool now...

I hope you all enjoy my journey in the Kitchen... it doesn't get any better then this!

Shelly Thing #62

Dead Serious

 

 

If you can see the world that turns in my mind, you'd be surprised. 

Shelly Thing #61

How YOU make me feel

You make me want to wake up in the morning.

You are the one that keeps me going...

Every time that I get blue, I stop and think of YOU!

We won't ever disagree, cause I know you'll never tease...

we all know you are here just to please..

Thank You.... 

Nice and Silky, Caramel Milky... I just can't get enough of you... 

You light up my eyes, all my sadness dies and it's no damn surprise the delights you hold inside

That plastic cup so strong and lean, who would have thought you and me, would be for...  Eternity. 

Ode to My Macchiato.

Shelly Thing #60

Expression is a Passion

My Passion for expression stems out of every instance I have... In every piece of work I do, I always wait for it.

I would say my favorite expression is Satisfaction.

It's like biting into your favorite cookie and remembering the feeling it gives you when you know that it 

Hit. The. Spot.

It was just what you needed. 

Your mind will run in different directions, scrambling to find the right expression your face should displace for that moment.  Remember that when you express certain emotions, your face immediately paints a picture for the other or the mirror to see.... what happens to all the pictures that others don't see? ever wonder who is watching? I sit in my own little world half the time quiet and the other times not so quiet and watch... Surf the smiles, the frowns, the excitement, the shocked & shy faces of strangers and loved ones.  You can almost tell from the Jump how a person is feeling.  They can claim all they want that they don't show emotion and nothing in this world will bother them, but a face will never lie... the muscles in your face have an immediate reaction, even if it's for a split second.  It's almost like the letting the "cat outta the bag"

For my baking, that first bite reaction of the individual is like a line straight to my heart.  The smile of satisfaction warms it, and then the widening...when you have your eyes on the prize makes me smile ;)  My photography on the other hand is more of a search, its one of the main reasons why I like expression.  

The expression makes the picture. 

I generally try to speak with my eyes and figure out the other person that I am dealing with.  I'm pretty spot on with these types of things.  I already know what a person is going to spit out just cause I saw the muscle create the picture already.  Some don't think it's that easy, but to each their own... till then, I will still span the crowd, looking for the best yet.

 

Shelly Thing #59

Eventually everything will be clear... Till then I'll look to the clouds and daydream :-)

Shelly Thing #58

Never a Dull Thursday Night... Just sayin... 

I'd like a set of Noodles with some concrete on the side.. OH SNAP!

Shelly Thing #57

SHAKE SHACK ATTTTTACK!  

I have been waiting for this day.... oh Yes!  Shake Shack- Located 1849 Post Road East, Westport CT.  Across the street from Home Goods, Walgreens and Bagel King.  


Like I have said it before... You can't ever have enough GREAT Burger Places.  I love em! Well here we go! 


It was a hard decision, what to try first?! Of course you want to try everything, but of course you cannot!  Unless you want to feel completely gross afterwards lol   

The parking lot was full, which I completely was ready for. (I parked across the street)  I actually was ready to be waiting for about 45 minutes to an hour, but to my surprise it really wasn't that bad.  They had a couple employees directing traffic and a couple greeting as you walked up.  The nice young lady that greeted me as I walked in, gave me a Fresh Pair of Shake Shack Glasses- to totally 80's me out, but yet make me very excited to walk in and try my first experience. 

I checked the menu Online and already had the game plan down.... Rule #1 for a First Foodie Experience.  ALWAYS BE PREPARED!  Study the menu! Nothing is worse then somebody sitting there with a Finger on their lip, wondering.. Oh Gosh... whats good? What do I want?  If you want it that bad, then you know what you want! Their menu on the other hand is LARGE, easy to read and You don't have to wait till you get to the counter to see it!     

They Offer Burgers, Dogs, Fries, Frozen Custard, Drinks... BEER AND WINE!  (this is the hook, line and sinker for a lot of people) 5 guys definitely has a run for it's money!  They also offer a variety of Clothing, Ie. Shirts- thought these baby onsies were cute 

Now let's get to the Food...   I couldn't decide whether I wanted a regular Cheese Burger and a Dog (yes I know, jeez) OR the Shack Stack (which is about equivalent in size the burger and dog)... I went with the Shack Stack.  I can get a burger and dog down the street, so I went for something I can't get anywhere else!  It contains:  1 Cheese Burger, 1 (delicious) Portobello Mushroom, Deep Fried and Filled with Muenster and Cheddar (OMG OMG) With Lettuce, Tomato and Shack Sauce, which is like a garlicy mayo.  One Order or Fries and a Fair Shake, which is vanilla with Coffee... now time for the Food Porn, then i'll tear them apart.... 

 With this Burger... It's a lot of food! You gotta do the Guy Fieri Lean and Bite, it's a Mouth Full! I have to admit, I loved every single piece and said OMG after every bite... but.. It's a lot of food (for me at least)  I enjoyed the Mushroom and Burger together, the taste of each one was outstanding, but I am curious to see how they stand alone.  The Crispiness of the Mushroom with the Burger was a great mix.  The fries, were wonderful... I love Crispy Fries and they hit the spot! The Shake.. I gotta say.  I found my most favorite shake today.  Vanilla and Coffee is mm mm GOOOD and it's small size is perfect to match that Giant size Burger!   During my next trip, it's strictly HotDogs for me... and I will share after that as well... I guarantee it will be just as good as the burgers... I can't wait ;)  I give it 2 Thumbs up, get your ass there! It's a Fun, Delicious Experience and we are all grateful to have one Local! 

 Don't miss out on our New Local Shake Shack! Tell your friends ;)

I forgot to add...  They are all on Potato Rolls! WTF! Heaven! ;) :) 

Shelly Thing #56

My Imagination Creates Life...  This life is Splendid, Funny, Vindictive, Unpredictable, Wonderful, Sad, Happy, Sorry, Real, Interesting, Crazy, Mysterious and a Figment of Your Imagination! 

These days have been good... ;)

Shelly Thing #55

It's Angry Beaver Town... 

Wednesday Nights.  

My Loyalties were slighted, but I join to commence with my favorite peeps...  I enjoy just sitting quietly (at times) and just snap away... of myself too of course! Not that I am totally In Love with myself or I am Vain...(slightly) but... I can't help it.  My iPhone camera definitely has gotten a run for it's money cause I use it more then anything I touch on a daily basis.  We are Homies for life actually, If I could have a retracting belt like Data and have my iPhone attached, it would make me smile & Look like a nerd but it's a complete

"Shelly Thing"  

Vanity is My Favorite Sin~ Al Pacino

     I need to start writing more on this blog, instead of just posting pictures.  The pictures have a story in their own but sometimes you need more meat to it.  My fingers tap, tap, tap away all day and they spit out interesting lines but sometimes I refrain from sharing them.  They might Hurt you, Shock you or Make you laugh your ass off and sometimes I am just too nice to Be "That Girl" but sometimes I need to stand a little stronger and have a tight grip on certain instances.  I can sit with For Instances for a bit but it wouldn't be such a blind item (this is where the nice me comes out) It would just be too BLUNT (this is the part kika would love) and I bet some would fall over and feel the guilt above their head as they read along.... No Wonder You Can't Sleep at Night..  Let's break at that note and share some shots.

 I may not be a writer, that is not my Intention.

  I won't ride the coat tails of anothers Passions and expect things to be new.

But I will tell you this.  Things will change. For New, For Better or For Worse.  We won't ever know.  Till then I will rant away and share the splendid shots of each day... Possibly a Lyric or two, just for YOU! 

Michelle is my name, or you can call me Shelly.  You may not like what I have to say, or do...but I will always Be True*  I am *Different, I am *New, I am *Photo, I am *Cool, Cross me once... and it's the death of You! 

Shelly Thing #54

One of my **Favorite** Places for Round Two!

Shelly Thing #53

My hand could sit in this Position all the time... :)

Shelly Thing #52

Flurs.... I just stop and snap a shot of them... I love em ;)

Shelly Thing #51

Priorities for Today go in this Order... 

Me.

 Me, Me...

 

Me, Me, Me...

Hmmmm.... Me, Me, Me, Me

ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shelly Thing #50

So many BBQ's & Fireworks this past weekend... I have yet to capture the fireworks (I saved that for tonight) but I captured a couple fun  things ;)   I love my nephews :)

My Mike <3

“While we try to teach our children all about life, our children teach us what life is all about.”

Children will not remember you for the Material Things you Provided to them but for the Feeling that you Cherished Them~ Richard L. Evans

It was a splendid summer morning and it seemed as if nothing could go wrong~ John Cheever

My David being David... lol