Shelly Thing #66

Eerie Number for the topic of the post... I think so, You may not... it's 66, and it makes me think of 666...

Well I am just going to graze the topic cause it's just a thought that came across my mind... Generally it's what happens when I post things... maybe I should spit more of them out in a day.  Then again, you may think I'm a complete weirdo lol 

Well today's topic is.     Unhappiness. (see why I thought 66 was eerie... the devil is always unhappy lol)

Stemming back to my post on Expression... again lol   Did you know that when you are unhappy, you express it in some type of way?  I am just going to hone in on the Facial expression and the Action. 

  Facial Expression:  I go into a grocery store, the girl at the checkout counter always looks completely MISERABLE!  That doesn't make for a good visit with the checkout girl... No... I always try to make small talk with them, make em smile or chuckle.  Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.  What that person doesn't realize is, when they have that look of misery on their face, people take notice and it kind of turns the person off.  Now, if you are miserable too.. it may just be a match made in heaven lol (misery loves company) ok ok enough of that.. lol anyway.  No Matter how much I hated my job, I still put a smile on.  But that is just me.  Some people don't realize if you just suck it up, be the best you can be, and smile while doing it,  you wouldn't be so miserable!  Maybe there are other things going on in the background that we don't know about and it could be the reason for the sour puss but you can always make a change.  Now, I'm not standing on a soap box and telling you that I am never unhappy, cause that would be a Bold Face Lie!  I realize that when I am unhappy I have to make a change... sometimes it's not easy- well.. Life isn't easy! Some people will say, "There is NO changing it" well yes, there is.  Which brings me to actions... You act a certain way with your mood.  If you are constantly doing something which results in something else (which causes stress or unhappiness for you and "others") then that means you were Unhappy from the jump!  You may think of a million other reasons to justify the action, but in reality people eventually WILL catch up on it and see how Unhappy you really are.  Sometimes you feel these actions are making you happy... no no no... You are just fueling your unhappiness. (oh man did this one become a blind item as well? Shucks)   There are things that if you actually sat down and thought about it, are a result of your actions.  I'm not going list them, you already know them... Well, hopefully you will figure it out one day.  Why add the stress to your life?  I ask myself that question all the time.... I am learning to slowly not deal with the things that are going to make me unhappy or act in a way that is basically a cry for help.  Till then, a smile is contagious and maybe you should shed some of that happiness to that girl that the checkout counter, maybe it will help her change a couple things in her favor.  Stop and think about all issues you have in your life and see if they are a result of your unhappiness! You may just save yourself and others a lot of heartache!